Not everyone you know is meant to be in your life.
At any point in time, many people will flow into your life but many of them will leave just as quickly as they came.
Some you will block out. Others will leave on their own accord.
But those who are meant to be there, will never go away.
No one CAME into this world with anyone. But some are heaven sent & appointed to be in your support network.
Ordinary folks who will be the only ones who will have that particular thing you need at any particular time. Could be provision of encouragement, words of comfort, custodian & keeper of your secrets, rescue from a sticky situation including but not limited to financial crises, connections with or introduction to other cause helpers…
The list is endless.
No man is an island. No one is meant to stand alone. We are all created to inter-connect with others and be each others helper.
But people are specially appointed for specific roles…and sent into the lives of specific person(s).
And each of us have our own specific Personal angels, Destiny helpers, God sents.
Learn to recognise yours…. and
be grateful for them.
But you must also filter out the wheat from the chaff in your life. Those who really have nothing to offer you or anything positive to add to your life.
Such people are only around for what they can get from you: good/fun times, juicy gossip about other people and pieces of valuable information that they can use against you in future. Remember, these set of people can wine, dine and even pray with you. But when your chios are down, they will be the first in line and in the front row to scream “crucify him/her”!!!
These are simply “fair weather friends”
Get rid of them now. You don’t need them and you can never rely on them. Your secrets are like common commodities in their hands. Up for sale to any bidder.
And any help they render you, you will pay back – with great interest.
Other fair-weather friends will simply lay in wait, quietly out of sight. But at the first whim of your troubles – they suddenly come to life!
They are the Judas Iscariots, the Peters (before his repentance) the Tobiahs and Sanballats. Frenemies.
No-one needs them. But we all have them. Weed them out today.
Declutter your network and eliminate the dormant presences…so they don’t occupy the valuable space meant for valuable people.
Or quietly ferment in your life and eventually poison it with their toxicity.