Every woman deserves a man that will treat her with great respect and speak to her the way she wants and needs to be spoken to.
Not the one who will shout and bark orders, commands and instructions like she is his dog; a second rate, “beneath-me” human, and not his equal.
Girl, you are his “help-mate”, not his “omo-odo” (housemaid) or gateman!
If he acts like he is better than you, then you have NO BUSINESS being with him!
And YOU are probably better than him and he is simply trying to bring you down to his level!